What a great privilege and inspiration it is to hold a newborn!
When the lad was first placed in my arms I felt a bit clumsy and insecure โ itโd been decades since Papa Best (now become Grandpa Best) had held a baby.
๐ ๐ฐ๐ถ ๐ค๐ข๐ฏ ๐ฅ๐ฐ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ช๐ด, I told myself. ๐๐ฉ๐ฆ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ช๐ฏ๐จ ๐ต๐ฐ ๐ณ๐ฆ๐ฎ๐ฆ๐ฎ๐ฃ๐ฆ๐ณ, ๐ข๐ฃ๐ฐ๐ท๐ฆ ๐ข๐ญ๐ญ ๐ฆ๐ญ๐ด๐ฆ, ๐ช๐ด ๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ !
(Spoiler alert: I did not drop the baby.)
In fact the lad and I became immediate friends. He had been freshly changed and freshly fed and freshly burped, so all I had to do was walk with him and talk with him and tell him about life on earth.
โIt can get rough down here,โ I said. โSo we gotta stick together, okay?โ
He smiled at me. (Or maybe it was ๐จ๐ข๐ด.) His eyes were like great dark moons, absorbing everything.
At two months old, he fit very nicely in the crook of my arm and scarcely weighed a thing. In him I found no malice or deceit, no pride or slander, no inclination to do me harm.
โSo what was it like?โ I asked him. โOn the other side?โ
I think he knew the answer, and would have told me if only heโd had the words.
Time and space dissolved as we strolled through the house and onto the porch. We might have walked forever, learning from one another, had his mother not wanted him back.
โRemember,โ I told him. โYouโve got a friend in me.โ
BY THE WAY: Wouldnโt it be great if everyone had the chance to hold a newborn? Maybe once a week, as a kind of therapy. It would help us remember where we came from and where weโre going. And how we ought to treat one another along the way …